I spent a good part of our early married years longing to be a part of a group. We had lots of friends, but not a specific group, besides family, who we knew would invite us if they decided to throw a big holiday bash, or a ball, or even a fish fry.
I would be in social situations with others and they would talk about the fun activities they had been doing with their “group”.
I was jealous.
And it wasn’t very attractive.
For years, the group thing just never happened for us. I eventually stopped caring and decided to be happy with the very good friends that we DID have, and stop worrying about being a part of the COOL group.
It is so embarrassing even now to admit that as a grown women- with kids- I still thought amazing like a junior high girl.
Guess what?
When I quit trying to force it, God put us in a small group of wonderful people who have become like family to us. We have so much fun together and we not only BELONG to each other, but more importantly we BELONG to the FATHER.
I pray that because of my desire to be a part of something bigger than myself, I will keep my eyes open looking for others who are longing for the same thing.
I think that includes all of us!
I was just talking about this exact thing with my girlfriend..we both moved in later to the neighborhood therefore we are not a part of the bunko group. Ha! it is funny how this group thing works…I am pretty ok in my cozy nest with my kids and hubby! Have a wonderful weekend lady!!! Thanks for always teaching us to look deeper!
I think during high school , everyone would love to fit in. But as we grow, it's easier to let that kind of though fade. Being with friends and family is so much more rewarding. Have a great Sunday tomorrow. xoxo,Susie
I know exactly what you mean! So nice to know I'm not alone in these thoughts.
amen, well written.
Susan- I think we ALL want to belong…I think we ALL want to be part of something that validates us and makes us feel that we are worthy of being loved and included. I am so glad you found it in the end- xo Diana
Wonderful post and so true!
So true, dear Susan. The best part is belonging to Jesus Christ – what a blessing and joy! Thank you for sharing, sweet friend.
Love and hugs!
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Hi Susan,
Thanks so much for leaving a comment on my blog. Your post is spot-on with everyone, and it what I was thinking when I wrote mine. (Fixed a typo in my previous post:)
Love your blog!
Blessings,
Selena @ glencampbellclan.blogspot.com
great post and one that I think most of us can relate to
thanks for sharing
Brett
Hi Susan! It is amazing that when we stop trying so hard, God steps in with his love and wisdom and friends! He was waiting for you…and you came! Yay!
I am so happy that you have so much fun with your community, and you know that you belong to the Father too.
Smile inducing post!
Happy Monday!
Ceil